Ok family and friends...we have officially reached the halfway point! I mean man...was I glad to mark off that number 3 on our calendar! The wonderful news is that it is all downhill from here and the small prepping here and there can take place :) As the school year is coming to a close, life has undoubtedly sped up so here is a brief synopsis of the past month.
Porter has been staying busy with school and t-ball. With practices every Monday and Wednesday and games every Saturday until the end of June, I'd say my life is pretty planned out until right before Stephen comes home...yes!! Port is loving t-ball. When he is into the game, he totally rocks. However, he's not always into the game when balls don't come his way, and I'm sure you will see a little Stephen out in the field bent over grabbing handfuls of dirt and throwing it in the air all the while his glove is on the ground. Needless-to-say, 'Coach' is constantly saying, "Porter, get baseball ready. Porter, get of the dirt. Porter, pay attention." But honestly...can you blame a five-year-old who is waiting for a ball to catch that never makes it past the pitcher? haha He goes to practice with his right handed glove one day and his left handed glove the next day. We're trying to decide on a hand and get good practicing with both. Sure would be nice to have a guy here to practice and coach him in what to do and be better at. I'm great at yelling at the games, but I'm not the best coach :) School is going well too. He's already started with the catch phrase, "But I'm so tired Mom. Can I just skip school just this one time?" I mean wow! Kindergarten isn't until next year! Come on kid! As for maturing, Porter is growing up way too fast. He is the BEST big brother ever! I don't care where I am, Porter will scream "No Joshua" and "Mom! Joshua is eating so and so and will die!" He watches his brother like a hawk and makes sure he is minding his Ps and Qs already. Super helpful and super smart :) They finally put up an Osprey in at the helicopter display here at the front gate on base. The sweetest thing Porter said when he saw it was, "Mom, Mom! Daddy is going to be so happy when he comes home and sees the Osprey!" That little boy never stops thinking about his Daddy and he lets me know in the most random sweetest ways :)
As for little Joshua. He is WALKING!! And when I mean walking, I mean...walking. He no longer takes steps. He walks from place to place. He looks like a little penguin or stick man with his rigid movements, but once he starts...he can't stop himself! He says Momma all the time when he needs me and he says Dadda when he sees Stephen on the phone or his Daddy doll in his crib. We call Porter BruBru and he's called Porter that a couple of times too. He's is totally growing up so fast! He's finally eating table foods, more like scarfing down table foods. I'm just trying to get his calories up. He had a growth check on May 20th and of course was not progressing as 'normal' as a 10 month old should. So, we had a wonderful impromptu double blood draw from his teeny little arms to get around 10 tubes of blood and then a catheter to check to make sure he didn't have protein in his urine, etc. Of course, the catheter didn't work and we had to go back the next day to try it again. I swear, if Stephen was here he would have literally passed out because I almost did and stuff like that doesn't normally bother me. Whew! The doctor already called with most of the results and everything came back negative. But because of his slow weight and height increase, we have to go back every two weeks to check and make sure he is progressing and not regressing. If things don't improve, we will then be sent to an endocrinologist to rule out hormonal imbalances and if that seems fine we will then see a gastroenterologist to make sure his stomach isn't emptying all of his calories out in his diapers. But besides that, he is crawling like a maniac up my stairs! I mean one day I was cooking or cleaning downstairs and then realized I heard Joshua making little squeaking noises far away. Low and behold, I ran up the stairs and found him sitting at the top of the stairs looking down because he couldn't figure out how to go down. Thank goodness he was not too adventurous then! So a baby gate is pretty much at the top of my list now :) This past weekend on Mother's Day, we went to the beach and it was little J's first time! He had soo much fun and did not try to eat sand once! Definitely a successful beach trip.
Not much to report in my area. Just running around being chauffeur for the kids and constantly cleaning a never ending dirty house. I mean, I have a revolving front door with kid after kid after kid and once something is clean, it immediately is dirty again. I've learned to just do what I can to get by until I can really focus my efforts without kid distraction :) My Mother's Day weekend was super great. I woke up at 5:45 (because that's around the time my little snug bug wakes up :) and started my day of landscaping! All of three of us drove the old 4Runner down to Hampstead to pick up plants, bushes and flowers to redo my two garden beds out front. When I mean redo, I mean like RE-DO! I dug up 6 azalea bushes and then dug up and transplanted 6 day lilies. I've never done anything like that before, and let me tell ya...it was super hard and super rewarding! True, I was wrangling a newly walking 10 month old who was in the beds eating fistfuls of dirt and crawling around on the concrete and walking in the road. And true, Porter did the opposite of help me dig and shovel and what not. But that one bed was finished by 12:30 and I felt amazing!! I finished the second one today and can't wait to go buy the rest of the bed stuff next pay check and watch my little garden grow!! It's the little things people. My good friend and neighbor Laura, and I laughed today when we felt like old people because, "We totally know how those old people feel when they yell at little kids not to pick the flowers from our garden! Those plants aren't cheap!! haha" I've already had an incident with my neighbor's child picking all of my rosebuds off of my plant before I had even planted it in the ground yesterday. I hope that after that extremely awkward confrontation my plants will be left alone! sigh...But seriously! I feel so accomplished envisioning and creating my flower beds. I can't wait to show Stephen in person!! Anyways, on Mother's Day morning, Porter walked down the stairs and came outside to me in his pajamas and doggie and handed me my card he had hid in his room so I couldn't find it that week. He walked right up to me and said Happy Mother's Day Mommy!! Completely made my crazied weekend all worth it! I love love my kiddos and Porter has such a sweet and tender heart. I can't snuggle with that kid enough. I may have gotten up at 2:30 am last night to feed a crying baby, and missed Porter so much I picked him up and brought him in bed with me just so I could snuggle!! Those are the only times I can do it since he is already so anti-pda:( But all-in-all, this our weekend was jammed pack with things to do and I wouldn't have traded it for the world! I hope every other Mom felt as special as I did with their kiddos on Mother's Day too :)
As for the man of mystery...he is surviving. We still talk everyday either with video or just audio, but he is knocking it out. The past week or so, he has been doing super long work days so we haven't chatted for more than 10 minutes max. I think he's getting the itch to come home since we hit the halfway point and I don't blame him! Everything seems to start speeding up and hopefully in no-time it will be here! And since there isn't anything I'm allowed to say, that's about it for Stephen! Doing the job thing every day and ready to be home! Please keep him in your prayers daily. Pray specifically for his safety on his job and especially for his spirit to keep going just a little longer until he's back here with us.
I know all of you teachers out there are counting down the school days now too! Seriously less than a month left. Y'all can do it!! And summer is just around the corner and I couldn't be happier!! I hope this nice weather is keeping everyone outdoors as much as possible. I think I will live outside after the crazy freezing winter we have had. Bring on the heat and humidity!! And just in case y'all need an invitation, please feel free to come visit here anytime! Porter would love some fans out in the stand besides his scatter brained Mom chasing his brother all over the grass every game :) It would be nice to see some of y'all up this way. It sure would make the time pass by quicker! Until we make it down to Charleston next...take care!!
Love y'all....Amanda Rae
Porter out on the boat with his new big kid vest with Aunt Ande and Uncle Jarrett.
Joshua's first boat ride! He reminded me of Porter's first boat ride...little baby head sticking out of a big bundled lifejacket :) He loved it!
Me and Port at the aquarium checking out the mermaid show.
Aunt Izzy came to hang out too with us!
Porter and Amelie having some much needed play doh time at the Kish's house :)
Joshua and Wren were semi-interested in each other :) I'm sure our next visit they will be having lots of fun hanging out!
Aaaannnddd....Joshua's face pretty much sums up a typical night in the tub at our house. I love these two crazy and fun boys :)
Our Easter family picture!
Hiding Easter eggs with the cousins!! Porter's Charleston highlights are getting to see these two crazies...and if you can't tell, I'd say they all had tons of fun!
This is a glimpse into our street and life :) This is at our neighbor's son, Gavin's, birthday party. :) Aubrey and Porter are still inseparable!! Love our neighborhood!
I know, it's going to break. But Joshua's favorite place is the dishwasher and his favorite thing to do is hold this American flag :) He kills me!
This is our monthly ice cream pic at Sweet Frogs!! 3 months down!! All downhill from here :)
I completely redid my flower beds in the front of our house. I drove down to Pender Pines, a nursery in Hampstead, and let the gardener pick out all of my shrubs and flowers to replant. This is what they have to occupy the kids while you shop. Needless-to-say, Porter always wants to visit the plant nursery :)
This was Porter's class Memorial Day performance which included Patriotic songs and sign language!
Joshua's sweet face on Memorial Day at 5:45 a.m. :) Yes people, he wakes up looking like this and is like this ALL day!! Couldn't ask for a better baby
Aubrey's sister Carlee was in a play out in town and we went to support her rold as Shere Kaan in The Jungle Book! Again, Porter and Aubrey ;)
Porter and I's mini-date of 1/2 priced milkshakes after the performance. We never get one-on-one time...ever. So we soaked in our drive-in experience :)





